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what you say + what you do +what you are =C…….r August 14, 2009

Filed under: Life — charmingff @ 12:14 pm

I didn’t want to write today because my heart is so heavy , but obviously I will feel lighter when I let it out ,have learn t to be patient over time , and its  because if you are aiming at something /target , there is need for a waiting period , but at what point do you get to your saturation point , At what point do you think you cant take it no more ,People who deceive other people are likewise deceiving themselves , it will take you to first fool yourself before you fool another person .Someone try to play a fast one on me with my money and  I said  to ME , it might be his way of doing things …………………………..


Character is very important , its God’s priority and its not reputation , we need to build our character , its a different ball game in the world not because character protects our gifts(charisma) and our gifts are not as important as our character , reputation is what people think about us but character is what we know about ourselves on the inside and in private  and that is why it is called integrity(what you say , do and are )3 in 1 . greatness can be lost in a twinkle of an eye if the character is not right , if i have a choice between Samson and Joseph I will choose Joseph, they where both tempted the same way but Samson fell and Joseph did not , Samson had strenght Joseph had character . We could get destroyed by what we like the most ,

Sex ,Money , Power , and the host of others have made people lost their character ,though I know we are human and not to Judge anyone , and that’s  why am referring to US meaning ME inclusive , we need to protect our character , am guiding mine Jealously I don’t want to falter because you don’t know what the next mistake might cost you , I have made so many  mistakes  in the past that I have counted my losses , and have picked up my baton to move on and do things right , we must strife to make both our public live and private live ONE , if only BILL CLINTON knew what MONICA’S case cost him , he would have done better , a leader is the same all the time. What we do when no one is watching is what we really are .character protects our talent , its our inherit abilities , submission to discipline and principles .

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Who knows tomorrow? , we don’t know where we will be or end up in life ,here we are in a life we don’t own , because GOD is watching us , imagine you relate to men/women you don’t know , we will go through a lot of test in life,we have to develop our character through steady trials and tough times ,  can we be trusted by people or GOD  , we should not strife to be powerful , we should strife to protect our lives by protecting our character .God wont bring some of us out as leaders and as better people until he is satisfied with our character , character protects power and Vision . May God work around us and beat out those  things we don’t need .Our stories will not be cut short .

May we live a life of character

love you still



6 Responses to “what you say + what you do +what you are =C…….r”

  1. justdoyin Says:

    I hope u feel beta now dearie…

    • Tokunbo Says:

      The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and conveniences, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy- – – – – – – Martin Luther King Jr.

  2. funmi Says:

    thanks dearie , am the only one responsible for my happiness despite all odds , all things work together for my good , looking forward to chatting with sooon

  3. GlenStef Says:

    Amazing! Not clear for me, how offen you updating your charmingff.wordpress.com.
    Have a nice day

  4. funmi Says:

    as often as i get inspired , hi , thanks for the comments

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