A Voice To Be Heard!

…life, the way i see it and what i learn from it!

Internal Hunt February 25, 2010

Filed under: Life — charmingff @ 9:27 am

Recently been doing some studies on human communication and some other things ,In my quest to add value, I can say am learning , am Ok and am on my Way , I went on a hunt of a host of foreign things I want to know about ,

I want to fitly speak the word to people and treat people right , but one needs to be able to speak the right words all the times  ,and I want to edify people with my presence in Life ,  hence one falters, so before we falter we need to be wise , though we unconsciously say/do  things we later need to apologise for , But whatever situations ,circumstances we are in life , we need to represent Ourselves .

I have learnt not to Blame myself for misfortune , tragedy , there is no need to walk around guilty , once you have dropped the baton , pick it up and run , learn the new rules to winning .

A person’s internal disposition is completely dependent upon their decisions , so one needs to get rid of every negative feelings and foreign enemies in our lives .This is achievable with effort and will

There are   8LIFE  steps , that we need to know not to get stuck and stranded in life , Words produce what we think , Thinking produce emotions , Emotions produce Feelings , Feelings produce Decisions we make , Decisions produce the Actions we take , Actions we take produce the Habit we create , and the Habit produce our Character and the Character brings us to our Destination , this is the full anatomy of LIFE,

If you are not satisfied with Life , then we need to reverse or Undo , or re-address any of the steps in the anatomy of Life .The life we want can be definitely earned , we must not get stranded or stuck .


As goes our thinking so goes our life ,

if you think you are beaten you are ,

 if you think you are not then you wont ,

 if you think you’ve got class , you are ,

You’ve got to think higher to rise ,

You’ve got to be sure of yourself to win a price ,

think big and your deed will grow ,

think small and you fall behind ,

think that you can and you will and its all in the state of mind ,

think life battles don’t always go to the stronger and faster man , but to him who thinks he can win


My Ever Charming Self

Love always



I NEED SOMEONE! February 18, 2010

Filed under: Me — charmingff @ 8:41 am

A quest in order to find
what lies in

My heart

In my soul

On my mind

So many weaknesses and faults

Sometimes serenity
sometimes misery

So complex and I say who can comprehend

I need a love that’s pure and true!

I need someone

who’s shoulder just to cry on

To ease the agony

and find tranquility

Share the inner most and secret thoughts

Someone who speaks words of love and mean so much

And Give a smile that would hide my pain

I need a love that’s pure and true !

Someone who’s got a special kind of love

that keeps me handlin

that makes everything alright

that makes life worth living

I need a love that’s pure and true!

Sweet and gentle touch

Lord I need,

I need someone my Lord

Can always find it in you JESUS

That someone is you


All about RED ! February 16, 2010

Filed under: Life — charmingff @ 3:23 pm

I want to say happy Valentine’s  day in arrears to everyone , this is coming rather late , but above all , I wish you Love , Joy and happiness all the days of your lives

Two days before Valentine’s I was coming back from work , and all the boutiques , grocery stores I saw around displayed clothes and items with the colour RED ,as much as possible almost everyone had a Red  colour commodity to sell ,to suit the coming VALS , and I kept wondering what is it with the colour RED , funny enough I like the Red colour , it’s very eye catching and it has a lots of meaning, One could almost be blinded by the clothing’s and accessories almost everyone had on VALS days .

And I wonder , I just wondered , RED , Red , what is it about you RED , I hummed the UB 40 song titled RED , RED WINE ! . I found out that red had more personal associations than any other colour . Red draws attention and a keen use of Red as an accent can immediately focus attention on a particular element . The RED colour increases enthusiasm , stimulates energy , encourages actions and confidence , no wonder there is this sense of pride and confidence I feel anything I out on a RED attire , this amazing colour also provides a sense of protection from fears and anxiety .

It beats my imagination that same colour that represents DANGER ! DISASTER ! BLOODSHEDDING ! ,little wonder why the bible says “though your sins are as RED as scarlet “ also represents LOVE! LUST AND BEAUTY , in many languages and culture , in china RED is associated with GOODLUCK and FORTUNE .In india Red colour marked on your forehead brings GOODLUCK .In Hindu red symbolizes JOY ! LIFE ! ENERGY and CREATIVITY .

One of the most interesting thing about the colour is that it is the highest colour of the rainbow and also the first colur you lose sight of at twilight ,amazing !.little wonder why some companies and brands like coke , Red-bull , America heart association , identify with the colour

There are a host of popular phrase about red see below

  • Red carpet treatment ; giving privileged treatment to an important person
  • Caught in the red : clearly guilty
  • Red in the face : become embarrassed
  • Seeing Red : to become angered
  • Red flag : a warning of danger
  • In the red : a term to describe economic loss

All these and many more phrases are used .

In the civilized world there is no question that the vehicle you drive is an extension of your personality –an unspoken but clear message to the rest of the world ,

  • The message you send by driving a vehicle that is vibrant Red is : sexy , speedy , high energy and dynamic
  • If however your vehicle is burgundy a shade of red :you have a similar message but far less obvious

I Feel Red is more than a colour , Red is when you are in LOVE , and passionate , Red is when you are Heartbroken and your heart is bleeding , Red is when you have loads of energy and confidence in you , Red is when there  is war , danger , Red brings back message and memories , metabolism , Red  increases respiration rate , It is a perfect colour .I love red

Is there something you know about Red that should have been included in my post , Great ! I’d love to hear from you , share what you know about Red

Love you always



The Beauty of a Woman February 5, 2010

Filed under: Life — charmingff @ 2:44 pm

The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair.

The beauty of a woman must be seen from in her eyes, because that is the
doorway to her heart, the place where love resides.

The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mode, but the true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives and the passion that she shows.

The beauty of a woman grows with the passing years.

For attractive lips, speak words of kindness.

For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people.

For a slim figure, share your food with the hungry.

For beautiful hair, let a child run his or her fingers through it once a day.

For poise, walk with the knowledge that you never walk alone.

People, even more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed and redeemed; never throw out anyone.

Remember, if you ever need a helping hand, you’ll find one at the end of each of your arms.

As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands, one for helping yourself, the other for helping others.

Remain Beautiful