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…life, the way i see it and what i learn from it!

Be da Real Deal June 25, 2010

Filed under: Life — charmingff @ 10:42 am

Be the real deal To your family, friends and the society . Sure, people may know you. They may know about you. They may be aware of something fancy you did. That’s all fine and good. There’s nothing wrong with people thinking you are special, beautiful , nice, intelligent and the list is endless

But when you walk through the door to the place where you call home/church /school /office, do the people who know you think you hung the moon?

When you go visit your parents ,family members ,and friends ,do they smile when they see your face? When you kiss your spouse, do they know they are loved?

This year, one of my sisters went to school , I had no idea how unexplainable and unimaginable the love I’d have for her  would be. It is truly something that I wouldn’t trade for anything.

It doesn’t matter how many people read my blog. It doesn’t matter if someone thinks I’ve hung the moon because I extended forgiveness. It doesn’t matter if someone enjoys my company.

It doesn’t matter if I shared something with a friend /friends /colleagues  and they had an a-ha moment.

While I like that people read my blog and think I’m nice and enjoy my company and think that I have something important to say,

there is one thing that is more important. I want to be not just a big deal to them but the real deal

love You



Women Love Diamond June 14, 2010

Filed under: Life — charmingff @ 9:59 am

Diamonds are wonderful things. As women, we like them. Of course we do! They sparkle. They shine. They are valuable. No wonder they are called our best friend.

Diamonds are beautiful and when we are the  women God intended us to be, we can be beautiful too. We can sparkle and we can shine. Diamonds don’t start out beautiful. They come from deep in the earth. It’s just like when we come to Christ for salvation. We come from deep within the miry clay of sin.

One of the characteristics of a diamond is its clarity. That involves whether there is the presence of any impurities or inclusions in the diamond. Depending on its visibility, the grade of a diamond will go up or down.As women impurities  like abuse , secrets , mistakes , pain and a host of others s  bring us down and make us feel bad , Others may not even see our impurities  because it may not be visible with the naked eye, but remember that God can see our hearts. He knows what the scale of our clarity is.

You need to know that Diamonds don’t automatically shine and sparkle. Diamonds that are uncut are rough and aren’t like the diamonds we wear in our jewelry. Only the cut diamonds sparkle. A diamond has to be cut by someone who is skilled in diamond cutting for it to sparkle and reflect light. Only the cut  women  can sparkle too. We as women  have to be cut by our Master Designer in order to sparkle and reflect they way we should .

check out my definition for DIAMOND

D- Delight In The Lord

I- Increase In Love

M- Minister To Others

O- Obey God’s Word

N- Never Give Up

D- Die To Self

So, how well do you sparkle? May we reflect His light to the maximum in our lives.

Much love siters