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…life, the way i see it and what i learn from it!

Pretty Woman?not really September 23, 2010

Filed under: Life — charmingff @ 12:09 pm

Looking around me I sometimes wonder what people are thinking. I’m thinking about  my program on radio , my job , my dreams , things I desire to own , and God . I have 2 piercing on my ears . So I am the last person to tell you not to do it. But please think about it before you do it.

I see a lot of young girls with tattoo’s that make them look slutty. Very young girls wearing low-cute shirts showing half of their breasts with a tattoo on one of both breasts.
A person has a tattoo for his or her own reasons but most of the times he/she wants to be able to show it to the world. A tattoo on the breast automatically lets the spectator look at the breasts.

For some reason a lot of  we  girls also act the part. I mean the part that we want to be seen , either the short play or  the slut part. Just to be liked and to be part of the group. To be noticed and sought after .

Now back to tattoo’s and piercings. What is sexy and what is slutty?? Just remember this is my opinion, but then I  dont know

Nipple piercings. Now those are sexy. It’s a sexy pleasant surprise if the bra comes of and there is a little jewel. Of course not if everybody has seen it. Tattoo’s on the breasts are not good.Lets put it like this. All the parts of the female body that’s forbidden for just any guy to see, stare at or touch. That means breasts, ass, and crouch area.

 Tattoo’s on the lower back are very common now. They could be sexy depending on the design. Tattoo’s on the belly aren’t slutty, but aren’t sexy either. I think they are just weird

Basically what I’m saying is, think about what you are doing, if you put a tattoo and what kind of message it send out to the rest of us. It’s not like you can remove it anytime you want.

All you do , just be modest , Tatoos , Piercing its all your choice

love you still



Allow YOU please ……………. September 6, 2010

Filed under: Life — charmingff @ 1:29 pm

Yes where is your mind , where has mine been too , sure if you follow my blogging trend you would think , my mind went on vacation , well its good to give your mind a vacation , and let go of you , remove the attention off yourself and let your self be .

You need to be vulnerable at times , there is no sin in being vulnerable , let people know you don’t know and above all let God know you don’t know , so that he can help you , leave people who think they can take you for granted , anyone who wants to deceive you will first deceive him or herself .

My vacation was fabulous , I had fun , but then I went for a training ,  we were  to take tea /coffee every morning , I preferred coffee , because it  keeps me awake , so for like 4-days I carried my tea-cup very hot , not until one of the trainees a guy from Kenya , noticed how I carried my tea-cup and laughed at me , I laughed while he laughed and for once he was very surprised and impressed that , there ‘s a lady who doesn’t mind being laughed at . He then corrected me that the cup actually has a hidden handle , which he showed me and from that day on , I carried coffee cup with the handle  , I took to correction , I laughed at my ignorance , there is nothing to be shy about , I want to learn , am open to new ideas .

The Kenya guy made a statement on this faithful day , he said “Men pay attention to details , but women pay attention to fashion ”  guess what ?I didn’t have to argue , I gave him an agreeable nod , but I had to go back and ruminate on this statement . Because it is true  , most Ladies pay attention to how they look , Babes want to look fabulous ,every  mirror is a friend , but there are other details in life , there is more to this life than we can see .To become a successful leader you need to pay attention to even the slightest details .The things you might over look might cause you a life time to get again , be observant  , don’t just look but see.

Another thing is what are you doing to make someone else’s life better , you don’t have to be perfect to do that , get your mind right and help people , it musn’t be all about ME, ME , ME , because there’s going to be a time , this people will move for you . Hence note that your  Vulnerablity is not  for you, or people it’s for God Stop showing yourself strong , you can be hurt , and it can get really Bad 

In conclusion,  in life you need to learn how to carefully  choose your battles , don’t fight the wrong person because you need that energy to fight the right person ,  It’s not easy to live life the way you want it , even when you are willing , something about you might be stopping you , we are our own greatest enemies especially when it comes to issue of success , we just wont do something because we CAN and CANT .It could be hard ,but it’s not going to be like that forever

Allow yourself to go THROUGH  , to come TO , the development you get during trials and pressure is the best

Let your pretty self off the hook

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