Yes where is your mind , where has mine been too , sure if you follow my blogging trend you would think , my mind went on vacation , well its good to give your mind a vacation , and let go of you , remove the attention off yourself and let your self be .
You need to be vulnerable at times , there is no sin in being vulnerable , let people know you don’t know and above all let God know you don’t know , so that he can help you , leave people who think they can take you for granted , anyone who wants to deceive you will first deceive him or herself .
My vacation was fabulous , I had fun , but then I went for a training , we were to take tea /coffee every morning , I preferred coffee , because it keeps me awake , so for like 4-days I carried my tea-cup very hot , not until one of the trainees a guy from Kenya , noticed how I carried my tea-cup and laughed at me , I laughed while he laughed and for once he was very surprised and impressed that , there ‘s a lady who doesn’t mind being laughed at . He then corrected me that the cup actually has a hidden handle , which he showed me and from that day on , I carried coffee cup with the handle , I took to correction , I laughed at my ignorance , there is nothing to be shy about , I want to learn , am open to new ideas .
The Kenya guy made a statement on this faithful day , he said “Men pay attention to details , but women pay attention to fashion ” guess what ?I didn’t have to argue , I gave him an agreeable nod , but I had to go back and ruminate on this statement . Because it is true , most Ladies pay attention to how they look , Babes want to look fabulous ,every mirror is a friend , but there are other details in life , there is more to this life than we can see .To become a successful leader you need to pay attention to even the slightest details .The things you might over look might cause you a life time to get again , be observant , don’t just look but see.
Another thing is what are you doing to make someone else’s life better , you don’t have to be perfect to do that , get your mind right and help people , it musn’t be all about ME, ME , ME , because there’s going to be a time , this people will move for you . Hence note that your Vulnerablity is not for you, or people it’s for God Stop showing yourself strong , you can be hurt , and it can get really Bad
In conclusion, in life you need to learn how to carefully choose your battles , don’t fight the wrong person because you need that energy to fight the right person , It’s not easy to live life the way you want it , even when you are willing , something about you might be stopping you , we are our own greatest enemies especially when it comes to issue of success , we just wont do something because we CAN and CANT .It could be hard ,but it’s not going to be like that forever
Allow yourself to go THROUGH , to come TO , the development you get during trials and pressure is the best
Let your pretty self off the hook
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