A Voice To Be Heard!

…life, the way i see it and what i learn from it!

Re-write your own scripts September 11, 2009

Filed under: Lessons,Life,Me,My Experiences,Mystery — charmingff @ 8:31 am


It has been a very funny week , a unforgetable one to be precise , emotions running, jamming here and there , so funny , but I say to myself this too shall pass , I visualised  myself smiling someday soon . I went back to my bookshelf to dig out one of the books I had read before like 2 years ago , In Pursuit of Peace ,by Joyce Meyer . powerful book , I noticed I had unrest , I lacked peace , and I needed to get out of it , so I had to go in pursuit of peace , God gives peace.

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Dear Friends,Imagine the world you live in as a movie set, yes we do wrong thing but we also do right things “I realize that was the set which fit perfectly the character I’ve chosen to play, and the drama I’ve been choosing to enact.”

But now we should no longer be who we used to be , we should choose to be our most radiant self, dwelling at the highest level of our creative possibility.We need to manufacture the set, the drama, and our personality with  the power of our subconscious mind, because for me now I choose differently. My ego is no longer in charge, because I remember that God is. I remember I’m the child of a divine creator, and I choose to manifest the glory of God that is within me.”

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Now go rest, play, enjoy, improve, forgive and get ready — while your set’s being changed! And on the pages of your Life God will change your story


With love,



Let love lead the way September 8, 2009

Filed under: Life,Mystery — charmingff @ 9:23 am

What makes this world go round
Will the answer let her  down
She is so sweet and young
And her life has just begun
What does her future hold
That’s the story left unknown
Will she make it through her days,
Let our love lead the way

Part of me laughs
Part of me cries
Part of me wants to question why
Why is there joy
And why is there pain
Why is there sunshine and the rain
One day you’re here
Next you are gone
No matter what we must go on
Just keep the faith
And let love lead the way
Everthing will work out fine
If you let love, love lead the way

Sitting there all alone
In the window of her room
Watching the world go by
Brings tears to her eyes
All she sees is hurt and pain,
She wants to break the chain
She’ll keep pressing everyday
And she’ll find her own sweet way

You can be all that and still can be who you are
You gotta know for sure that it isn’t make believe
You may feel weak but you are strong
Don’t you give up if
If you keep holding on, you’ll never be wrong
Just close your eyes cause it lies deep in your heart, yeah


Automated (thiefry) Machine ………………ATM July 14, 2009

Filed under: Mystery — charmingff @ 1:21 pm

Am so sorry I have to borrow that middle word THIEFRY , I don’t know if it really suits , but that’s what came to my mind ,I guess its a Pidgin word .Its no news again the scam that has been going on , people loosing their money via ATM machines ,atm-machine

My sister narrated the experience of her boss with a well known bank and about  N350,000 was withdrawn via the ATM machine , her boss couldn’t believe his eyes , he almost freaked out , he went to the bank made complains , he was asked to get a police report , “this and that “but still the money didn’t come out , he got so infuriated someday and went to the bank manager to fight , he couldn’t take it anymore , not funny

BANG!!! he entered the bank managers office and before he could say JACK ! he met someone who had a worse case than his , who had come to scatter the manager’s office , this person had lost over N970,000 naira via the ATM , goosh!!! that’s some cool money , and not even in this time of recession where every kobo counts.

this is so ridiculous and its getting tougher everyday , same ATM intended for people to get quick cash as turned to THIEFRY MACHINE , same white men who invented pencil , invented Eraser , there has to be a way out of these , and the most annoying thing is the banks are less concerned , and who knows if these culprits are not the bankers themselves , something is just wrong somewhere,  in the case of technology and I know the solution is not far fetched ,its something the IT professionals can place their hands on , Oh! this must stop , it must/wont not happen  to me or YOU .And no one should even blame it on the economy , bad economy is not a 101% reason to steal, not at all , so much effort put into stealing or duplicating the ATM cards can be put into doing something sincere that they can make money from .Security is very vital now , you need more than 2 eyes to watchover yourself and your properties  We need to love ourselves and stop making life so unbearable for one another, how can we stop this mess?

suggestions and comments are welcome




When you want it bad July 9, 2009

Filed under: Life,Me,My Experiences,Mystery — charmingff @ 6:32 am

Yesterday was the 8th day in the month of July , Something happened and I felt bad , I was unhappy , I slept crying , I woke up still unhappy and I cried , seriously surfing my phone thinking of someone to talk to , but I decided to write my thoughtsfunmi out instead .I know I will feel good

But why am I feeling this way ? there was mixed feelings , One part of me was saying God can and he will because he can do it , this part of me was trying to trust God , but the other part was so downcast and asking why? how ? when ? which is really not good .Imagine I was feeling this way because I wanted something and I didn’t get it

So what happens when you want something bad and you don’t get it?for me desperation is not an option , doubt is certainly not supposed to be an option but it sets in from time to time , I try to stay positive , Hopeful , expectant and believing , I guess the most silent times in our lives is the waiting period , that is how God checkmates we human beings , when we know we have to wait till he says or does something.Then you are stuck with God ooopps!!!but his also explain why people do different things to get what they want like prostitution,robbery and the host of others , a lot of things is going on in our world today because people just need to get what they want badly , so they opt for so many options , people cant just wait ,some don’t even believe in doing it right to get it , instead they want the short and easiest way to it .

You see different things that seems like it,but its not it ,its not just it , you get turned down, runned down ,pressed,your hopes are rising , being built up , but all of a sudden,something happens and it all goes down like the tower of babel , you get confused like they did right there in babel.You are stuck with mixed feelings and it takes just you and you alone to have the faith to move on and go on , because weeping may endure , its just for a night but Joy comes in the morning , after the rain they say comes the sunshine and after the sunshine comes the rainbow , the rainbow has many colours ,so many colourful options, you look up and see the beauty of waiting for the rain to go down because the sun is going to shine if you hold out

So what happens when you want something so bad ?comments and suggestions needed




MIRACLES May 20, 2008

Filed under: Lessons,My Experiences,Mystery — charmingff @ 8:33 am
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U must look 2ru d “eyes of faith” & start seein urself as heavn sees U – happy, healthy, & whole. Dt means dt evn whn ur situation looks bleak, whn u’re temptd 2b discourgd or deprssd, u must encourg urslf by prayn, “God, I know dt U r in control, & evn tho ds look impossibl, I know 2day cld be d day things turn arnd. 2day cld b d day U restore my marriage. Ds cld be d day U bring my life partner. 2day may b d day my business begins 2 prospr exponentially. Ds cld be d day i see my miracle.” Then kip believn & watchn 4 those thngs com 2 fruition in ur life. U must mak a conscious decision, an act of ur will, 2 maintain an attitude of expectancy & kip ur mind filld wif hope (Phil.1:20) For this cld be d day U see ur miracle!

This Was What My Father Told Me: A Stone is Enough to Break a Glass…… One Sentence is Enough to Break a Heart…… One Second is Enough to Fall in Love…… and One Misunderstanding is Sufficient to Break Friendship. Friendship is the Rainbow Between two Hearts, sharing 7 Characters…. First i like u, then i loved u. Now i’m afraid to lose u



Filed under: Life,My Experiences,Mystery — charmingff @ 8:11 am
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At times I wonder why , do we loose things , OPPS !!!!!!!!! I hate looking for stuffs , its like suffering looking for something you have in your hands or at sight a minute/second ago , its even very funny that you might not see the stuff immediately although you need it urgently , then you see it much later when you dont need it again .
Many at times we misplace things that are valuable uknowningly like a Gold chain , or one leg of shoe ,at times you contemplate on getting a stuff probably then you don t have much , then the stuff gets misplaced a little while after thr acquisition .At times your stuff can fall in a muddy place of even inside the gutter unfortunately you might not be ableto pick it again , or if might get damaged when it falls .
A clearer picture of what am trying to say was a day I misplaced my purse in my friends car , she dropped me off and on retuning I have no money to God back Atm would have been my easiest way of getting money but it’s inmy purse , so another friend of mine , decided to loan me some money , I dropped by to see a friend who was hospitalised and all the while I kept the loaned money in mu pocket . I met two guys in the hospital who were goingmy way , we decided to leave together on getting to the car pack I discovered the loaned money was missing , whao !!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG , I almost freaked out , what? even the loaned money is missing so am left with nothing , I had to bury my pride and told the guys with me that I dont have anymoney on me ,God being so Good they told me not to worry , I was very downcast , they encouraged me and gave me some money which was beyond my expectation , when God is at work , he gives an avenue for praise , all Glory has to be returned and given to him despite all odds , .

Its another day’s journey March 7, 2008

Filed under: Life,Me,My Experiences,Mystery — charmingff @ 7:15 am
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It’s another days journey. On my way to the office, I got like five text messages from my peeps. Good to know some people still have me in mind despite all odds. And as I switched on my system to start the todays work, turning on my media player, this song came to my mind “just like a prayer” by Madonna. There is this particular line of the song I like so much, it says “Life is a mystery everyone will stand alone”.

Really it is, just occurred to me that you are just alone, irrespective of whoever, whatever surrounds you, but the mystery is God is the only one who stays even when others are not physically present. Put your trust in him and He’ll settle you.

So today’s work has began. I have some link analysis to do, some clients need to be networked.


love u all